Author: Helene Berger

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Published: 2019-05-22

Total Pages: 228

ISBN-13: 9780578450728

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Most accounts of Alzheimer's describe a process of irreversible degeneration and decline. This is a book of hope, a rare success story - the story of a woman who refused to surrender to the expectations of her husband's diagnosis, instead inspiring him to join her in making every moment they had together meaningful and precious. A few months after their fiftieth anniversary, Ady Berger was diagnosed with Alzheimer's. "I don't want to live anymore," was his response. His wife, Helene, was determined to find creative ways to make their lives as fulfilling as possible, for as long as possible. She began to include him in every decision made on his behalf. Together they built the scaffolding that gave Ady the best chance for positive outcomes, physically, emotionally, and socially. He thrived with a solid foundation of constant mental stimulation and support. Their efforts began to bear fruit. In his final years Ady again became known for his radiant smile; greeting friends by name; returning to the piano; playing chess; and beginning to draw pictures and writing nightly letters.Helene's comprehensive guide chronicles the different elements that made this regeneration possible. Welcoming, positive, and honest, she shares her own difficult journey: her doubts and fears, failures and ultimate successes. Choosing Joy includes: ¿The importance of acceptance by both patient and caregiver¿The importance of changing the caregiver's attitude from one of frustration and anger to kindness, appreciation, and support¿Ideas to keep the patient mentally stimulated and productive¿Methodology for negotiating joint solutions to the progressive challenges of a debilitating disease.¿Detailed strategies for hiring and bringing out the best in aides, creating schedules to avoid confusion by both caregivers and patient, creating a safe and healthy home environment, and managing doctor/patient relationships and complicated medications ¿Encouraging the caregiver to find the delicate balance between giving the best of herself while remaining whole and seeking her own fulfillment. ¿The life affirming insights Helene gleaned during and after the Alzheimer's yearsCaregivers of patients with any type of debilitating disease will find a wealth of information, ideas, and inspiration in Choosing Joy.

Download or read book Choosing Joy written by Helene Berger and published by . This book was released on 2019-05-22 with total page 228 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Most accounts of Alzheimer's describe a process of irreversible degeneration and decline. This is a book of hope, a rare success story - the story of a woman who refused to surrender to the expectations of her husband's diagnosis, instead inspiring him to join her in making every moment they had together meaningful and precious. A few months after their fiftieth anniversary, Ady Berger was diagnosed with Alzheimer's. "I don't want to live anymore," was his response. His wife, Helene, was determined to find creative ways to make their lives as fulfilling as possible, for as long as possible. She began to include him in every decision made on his behalf. Together they built the scaffolding that gave Ady the best chance for positive outcomes, physically, emotionally, and socially. He thrived with a solid foundation of constant mental stimulation and support. Their efforts began to bear fruit. In his final years Ady again became known for his radiant smile; greeting friends by name; returning to the piano; playing chess; and beginning to draw pictures and writing nightly letters.Helene's comprehensive guide chronicles the different elements that made this regeneration possible. Welcoming, positive, and honest, she shares her own difficult journey: her doubts and fears, failures and ultimate successes. Choosing Joy includes: ¿The importance of acceptance by both patient and caregiver¿The importance of changing the caregiver's attitude from one of frustration and anger to kindness, appreciation, and support¿Ideas to keep the patient mentally stimulated and productive¿Methodology for negotiating joint solutions to the progressive challenges of a debilitating disease.¿Detailed strategies for hiring and bringing out the best in aides, creating schedules to avoid confusion by both caregivers and patient, creating a safe and healthy home environment, and managing doctor/patient relationships and complicated medications ¿Encouraging the caregiver to find the delicate balance between giving the best of herself while remaining whole and seeking her own fulfillment. ¿The life affirming insights Helene gleaned during and after the Alzheimer's yearsCaregivers of patients with any type of debilitating disease will find a wealth of information, ideas, and inspiration in Choosing Joy.