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Cuckolding is way more common than you might think. It has been a male fantasy for as long as man has been on earth. For some men this fantasy becomes a reality, whether by design, luck or accident. This is a nuts-and-bolts guide to the process, pitfalls and hopefully, pleasures that you and your wife will face as you both work toward making your cuckolding fantasies become a reality.
Book Synopsis How to Get Your Wife to Cuckold You by : Lionel Maximilien
Download or read book How to Get Your Wife to Cuckold You written by Lionel Maximilien and published by . This book was released on 2017-01-12 with total page 43 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Cuckolding is way more common than you might think. It has been a male fantasy for as long as man has been on earth. For some men this fantasy becomes a reality, whether by design, luck or accident. This is a nuts-and-bolts guide to the process, pitfalls and hopefully, pleasures that you and your wife will face as you both work toward making your cuckolding fantasies become a reality.
We are Kat and Greg and we have been married for five years as of the writing of this book. To our friends and family, we have a normal monogamous relationship that is happy. We own a successful business together. Behind closed doors however, we have a cuckold or hotwife relationship. We will make a few assumptions about your knowledge of the topic since you found this book. We expect that you at least have a general idea of what cuckolding is.We are writing this book to help other couples who are interested in the lifestyle. We want to share our experiences with the world. Our relationship didn't start out this way, it evolved over time. We both read a lot about the topic as our relationship evolved. In particular, we enjoyed reading about other couple's experiences to help find our way through this new territory. Hearing about first-hand experiences on any topic you wish to learn about and explore is helpful. Now that we have settled into a comfortable place, we want to help others find their way.The format of this book will be general information to start each chapter, followed by personal thoughts from both Kat and Greg individually. We hope this will give you the basic information plus a more personal spin that you can relate to. It is a well-known fact that men and women think differently about everything. Even if we agree on something, we usually have different reasons for thinking the way we do. By sharing not just general information, but also two different views of that information, we hope to really give you a great sense of the topics.
Book Synopsis How to Get Your Wife to Cuckold: a Couples Guide by : Greg Webber
Download or read book How to Get Your Wife to Cuckold: a Couples Guide written by Greg Webber and published by . This book was released on 2017-07-17 with total page 59 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: We are Kat and Greg and we have been married for five years as of the writing of this book. To our friends and family, we have a normal monogamous relationship that is happy. We own a successful business together. Behind closed doors however, we have a cuckold or hotwife relationship. We will make a few assumptions about your knowledge of the topic since you found this book. We expect that you at least have a general idea of what cuckolding is.We are writing this book to help other couples who are interested in the lifestyle. We want to share our experiences with the world. Our relationship didn't start out this way, it evolved over time. We both read a lot about the topic as our relationship evolved. In particular, we enjoyed reading about other couple's experiences to help find our way through this new territory. Hearing about first-hand experiences on any topic you wish to learn about and explore is helpful. Now that we have settled into a comfortable place, we want to help others find their way.The format of this book will be general information to start each chapter, followed by personal thoughts from both Kat and Greg individually. We hope this will give you the basic information plus a more personal spin that you can relate to. It is a well-known fact that men and women think differently about everything. Even if we agree on something, we usually have different reasons for thinking the way we do. By sharing not just general information, but also two different views of that information, we hope to really give you a great sense of the topics.
You may be talking about Cuckolding and you may be ready to try it. I will share with you everything I have learned from my own experiences and the experiences of my hundreds of thousands of readers, fans and social media followers. Opening up your marriage and welcoming new people in to your life is no easy or simple task, if you don't want it to become a train wreck for your relationship. I'll show you how to have all the necessary conversations. I'll show you how to set up an open relationship in a compassionate and ethical way so that both partners can be fulfilled and happy with the experiences. I will share the wisdom of Cuckolds, Hot wives and the Outside Partners.This is the fourth and perhaps most widely anticipated must-read book in the Bestselling Love & Obey Female Led Relationship series by Marisa Rudder. It is a do-it-yourself recipe book for success. It is a how-to have a successful and happy open relationship. In the midst of all the hype, I will offer you, the authentic journey in open relationships; cuckolding, hotwifing, swapping, threesomes, polyamory and more. I'll show you the most common mistakes and false starts, as well as, the hottest success scenarios that will launch your love life into a new stratosphere. Forget everything you have heard before about Cuckolding and open relationships. Marisa's Revolutionary how-to guide is just as groundbreaking as the rest of her Loving Female Led Relationship advice. If you've decided to cuckold your husband, or your husband was the one who encouraged you to cuckold him, or even if he is trying to accept the idea of you cuckolding him, you probably have many questions and you should because, cuckolding is easy. There are important lessons, you both should know before you start. Fantasy is one thing but reality is something else. What are the rules and boundaries you must know before you start? How do you finding an outside lover / bull? Can you have your cake and eat it too? Can you enjoy your marriage, and still have sex with another man? Will your husband get jealous? Will you want to run off with your outside partner? These are all things you need to consider. Should your husband watch? Should you do it alone? This book covers opening up your sexuality to outside people, the pitfalls and the ways to make everything click into place. You'll be able to evaluate if this open FLR lifestyle is right for you.If you are happily married woman in a female led relationship and even having satisfying sex life with your husband do you really need to walk on the wild side with a bull? How do you stay healthy, safe and discrete? Welcome to the thrilling and revolutionary new guide to Cuckolding.
Book Synopsis Cuckolding by : Marisa Rudder
Download or read book Cuckolding written by Marisa Rudder and published by . This book was released on 2017-07-03 with total page 136 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: You may be talking about Cuckolding and you may be ready to try it. I will share with you everything I have learned from my own experiences and the experiences of my hundreds of thousands of readers, fans and social media followers. Opening up your marriage and welcoming new people in to your life is no easy or simple task, if you don't want it to become a train wreck for your relationship. I'll show you how to have all the necessary conversations. I'll show you how to set up an open relationship in a compassionate and ethical way so that both partners can be fulfilled and happy with the experiences. I will share the wisdom of Cuckolds, Hot wives and the Outside Partners.This is the fourth and perhaps most widely anticipated must-read book in the Bestselling Love & Obey Female Led Relationship series by Marisa Rudder. It is a do-it-yourself recipe book for success. It is a how-to have a successful and happy open relationship. In the midst of all the hype, I will offer you, the authentic journey in open relationships; cuckolding, hotwifing, swapping, threesomes, polyamory and more. I'll show you the most common mistakes and false starts, as well as, the hottest success scenarios that will launch your love life into a new stratosphere. Forget everything you have heard before about Cuckolding and open relationships. Marisa's Revolutionary how-to guide is just as groundbreaking as the rest of her Loving Female Led Relationship advice. If you've decided to cuckold your husband, or your husband was the one who encouraged you to cuckold him, or even if he is trying to accept the idea of you cuckolding him, you probably have many questions and you should because, cuckolding is easy. There are important lessons, you both should know before you start. Fantasy is one thing but reality is something else. What are the rules and boundaries you must know before you start? How do you finding an outside lover / bull? Can you have your cake and eat it too? Can you enjoy your marriage, and still have sex with another man? Will your husband get jealous? Will you want to run off with your outside partner? These are all things you need to consider. Should your husband watch? Should you do it alone? This book covers opening up your sexuality to outside people, the pitfalls and the ways to make everything click into place. You'll be able to evaluate if this open FLR lifestyle is right for you.If you are happily married woman in a female led relationship and even having satisfying sex life with your husband do you really need to walk on the wild side with a bull? How do you stay healthy, safe and discrete? Welcome to the thrilling and revolutionary new guide to Cuckolding.
Unlike other cuckold guides, this book covers it all. There is nothing left out. We clearly explain the delicate methods of cuckolding. Avoid all the big mistakes. How SHE can be the perfect 'Cuckoldress' or 'Hotwife' and how to find the best bulls. Learn all the benefits to the Cuckolding lifestyle. NOTHING IS LEFT OUT. You will NOT be disappointed. We also provide our true story of how we began enjoying the Cuckolding Lifestyle. Learn from a real cuckold couple. Get all the sexually explicit details."Yes! This is the BEST book I've read on Cuckolding. I read a lot of books too. Thanks so much." - John & Suzy"My wife and I enjoyed this book very much. It gives incredible information about Cuckold marriage. We also discovered where and how to find the perfect BULLS." - Wiliam & Joann"This book opened my eyes and I really got excited. My wife was reluctant - but now she's totally up for cuckolding me. I highly recommend this book for any Cuck or Cuckquean. It spells it all out and gives you many ideas to ponder. " - Carrie & JohnWhat's Inside:*Cuckold and Exactly What it Entails. Discover all the Secrets.* * How to Get Your Woman to Cuckold You!*Amazing Benefits of the Cuckolding Relationship*How the Cuckold Relationship Can Rekindle a Sexual Relationship.*Questions Cuckold Couples Should Ask*How to Squash Jealousy Issues* How to create a super trusting relationship*Why Cuckold Couples Should Use Different Bulls*Hotwife vs. Cuckoldress*How to Find Perfect Bulls*Cuckolding facts and how it bonds a husband and wife.PLUS LOTS MORE!"I've always wanted my wife to cuckold me, but I didn't know how to approach the subject. After reading your book I learned exactly what to say and NOT to say - Thanks!" - Greg & Terri"My wife and I are very close and we have a great sex life, but I have fantasies of her "DOING" other men - thanks to your book I discovered how to talk to her about my fantasy." - Bob & Susan"My girlfriend and I are deeply in love and we are ready to explore cuckolding. After reading this book we learned things we never knew. We suggest all couples who want to explore fantasies to read this book." Tom & CindyScroll back up and buy your own copy. You'l love it!
Book Synopsis Cuckold by : Mandy Lane
Download or read book Cuckold written by Mandy Lane and published by . This book was released on 2019-07-03 with total page 135 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Unlike other cuckold guides, this book covers it all. There is nothing left out. We clearly explain the delicate methods of cuckolding. Avoid all the big mistakes. How SHE can be the perfect 'Cuckoldress' or 'Hotwife' and how to find the best bulls. Learn all the benefits to the Cuckolding lifestyle. NOTHING IS LEFT OUT. You will NOT be disappointed. We also provide our true story of how we began enjoying the Cuckolding Lifestyle. Learn from a real cuckold couple. Get all the sexually explicit details."Yes! This is the BEST book I've read on Cuckolding. I read a lot of books too. Thanks so much." - John & Suzy"My wife and I enjoyed this book very much. It gives incredible information about Cuckold marriage. We also discovered where and how to find the perfect BULLS." - Wiliam & Joann"This book opened my eyes and I really got excited. My wife was reluctant - but now she's totally up for cuckolding me. I highly recommend this book for any Cuck or Cuckquean. It spells it all out and gives you many ideas to ponder. " - Carrie & JohnWhat's Inside:*Cuckold and Exactly What it Entails. Discover all the Secrets.* * How to Get Your Woman to Cuckold You!*Amazing Benefits of the Cuckolding Relationship*How the Cuckold Relationship Can Rekindle a Sexual Relationship.*Questions Cuckold Couples Should Ask*How to Squash Jealousy Issues* How to create a super trusting relationship*Why Cuckold Couples Should Use Different Bulls*Hotwife vs. Cuckoldress*How to Find Perfect Bulls*Cuckolding facts and how it bonds a husband and wife.PLUS LOTS MORE!"I've always wanted my wife to cuckold me, but I didn't know how to approach the subject. After reading your book I learned exactly what to say and NOT to say - Thanks!" - Greg & Terri"My wife and I are very close and we have a great sex life, but I have fantasies of her "DOING" other men - thanks to your book I discovered how to talk to her about my fantasy." - Bob & Susan"My girlfriend and I are deeply in love and we are ready to explore cuckolding. After reading this book we learned things we never knew. We suggest all couples who want to explore fantasies to read this book." Tom & CindyScroll back up and buy your own copy. You'l love it!
In this fourth and final volume, Allora takes her 7-year cuckold experiences and details the evolutionary stages of a cuckold marriage. A definitive guide for long term success in this challenging lifestyle. This best selling author offers inspiration and motivation to both husbands and wives who are concerned about the longevity of such a dynamic. Ms. Sinclair explains the pitfalls and payoffs leaving the reader informed and at ease. Cock cage types/costs, length of chastity, sissification and why it's so common, falling in love with a bull, and what to do if you lose an emotional connection with your spouse and so much more. A book that will take cuckolding to a whole new level, if you dare.
Book Synopsis DNA of a Cuckold - Advanced Couples Edition: The Next Level; When You Both Embrace Your Place And How You Want To Live by : Allora Sinclair
Download or read book DNA of a Cuckold - Advanced Couples Edition: The Next Level; When You Both Embrace Your Place And How You Want To Live written by Allora Sinclair and published by . This book was released on 2021-02-09 with total page 70 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: In this fourth and final volume, Allora takes her 7-year cuckold experiences and details the evolutionary stages of a cuckold marriage. A definitive guide for long term success in this challenging lifestyle. This best selling author offers inspiration and motivation to both husbands and wives who are concerned about the longevity of such a dynamic. Ms. Sinclair explains the pitfalls and payoffs leaving the reader informed and at ease. Cock cage types/costs, length of chastity, sissification and why it's so common, falling in love with a bull, and what to do if you lose an emotional connection with your spouse and so much more. A book that will take cuckolding to a whole new level, if you dare.
This is the book every cuckold wished he had to give to his wife. A tasteful and detailed look at cuckolding from the wife's perspective. Allora takes the discussion of cuckolding one step further, helping wives understand why their man may be drawn to cuckolding and why it should be something for them to consider seriously. It makes no false claims about convincing your wife to be a hotwife and refutes that anyone can do so. A well-balanced, open dialogue between women exploring the possibilities of power, control, and ecstasy in all aspects of their life. From best-selling author Allora Sinclair, this is the third book in a series to help vanilla couples make the transition into a cuckold lifestyle. A must-have for those still in the discovery stages.
Book Synopsis DNA of a Cuckold - Wife Edition: The Key To An Amazing Marriage by : Allora Sinclair
Download or read book DNA of a Cuckold - Wife Edition: The Key To An Amazing Marriage written by Allora Sinclair and published by . This book was released on 2021-02 with total page 58 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: This is the book every cuckold wished he had to give to his wife. A tasteful and detailed look at cuckolding from the wife's perspective. Allora takes the discussion of cuckolding one step further, helping wives understand why their man may be drawn to cuckolding and why it should be something for them to consider seriously. It makes no false claims about convincing your wife to be a hotwife and refutes that anyone can do so. A well-balanced, open dialogue between women exploring the possibilities of power, control, and ecstasy in all aspects of their life. From best-selling author Allora Sinclair, this is the third book in a series to help vanilla couples make the transition into a cuckold lifestyle. A must-have for those still in the discovery stages.
This book is designed for both the cuckold AND cuckoldress. It pulls apart the biological desires a cuckold has to feel fully satisfied and motivated - the buttons he needs his goddess to push, but is afraid to ask. Offering actionable steps a cuckoldress should consider, best-selling author, Allora Sinclair unpacks the complex and mysterious mind of a cuckold offering the key ingredients to make for a deeply satisfying and highly motivated cuckolding relationship. If you are a cuckoldress that struggles with what to say or do to make cucky happy beyond having a bull, or if you are a cuckold that wants to help his goddess understand what your heart really needs, this book is the perfect gift. It addresses several awkward topics like why cucks have a genetic need to be humiliated and sissified. Based on her real-life experiences, she identifies and explains how the disparity and sexual promiscuity is always seen by the cuckold as a form of mutual love and respect. This is a must have for any cuckoldress if she really wants to bring her little cuck to levels usually only dreamed of. It is also the ideal companion to the Conversion Kit - For Husbands.
Book Synopsis Cuckold Conversion Kit - For Wives by : Allora Sinclair
Download or read book Cuckold Conversion Kit - For Wives written by Allora Sinclair and published by Cuckoo Publishing. This book was released on 2021-06-28 with total page 62 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: This book is designed for both the cuckold AND cuckoldress. It pulls apart the biological desires a cuckold has to feel fully satisfied and motivated - the buttons he needs his goddess to push, but is afraid to ask. Offering actionable steps a cuckoldress should consider, best-selling author, Allora Sinclair unpacks the complex and mysterious mind of a cuckold offering the key ingredients to make for a deeply satisfying and highly motivated cuckolding relationship. If you are a cuckoldress that struggles with what to say or do to make cucky happy beyond having a bull, or if you are a cuckold that wants to help his goddess understand what your heart really needs, this book is the perfect gift. It addresses several awkward topics like why cucks have a genetic need to be humiliated and sissified. Based on her real-life experiences, she identifies and explains how the disparity and sexual promiscuity is always seen by the cuckold as a form of mutual love and respect. This is a must have for any cuckoldress if she really wants to bring her little cuck to levels usually only dreamed of. It is also the ideal companion to the Conversion Kit - For Husbands.
Have you and your wife been discussing "hotwifing" and now you're ready to take the plunge. Or rather, your wife is ready to find and have sex with another man, and as her husband you are delighted. Get enlightened and investigate what causes a unique Hotwife sexual lifestyle. Committed and loving couples everywhere are rejecting life-long monogamy by choosing open relationships. Female Led Relationship and Sex expert Marisa Rudder is the author of the bestselling books Cuckolding and Swinging and now she is taking a deep dive into Hotwifing in her new book Hotwife | A Couples Guide to Hotwifing. After all Hotwifing promotes the first rule of a "Love & Obey" Female Led Relationship, the Queen's pleasure always comes first. So her sexual freedom is a key component of her relationship, her openness to enjoy sex and pleasure is an end in and of itself, and it is not part of any bargain with her husband. For many of these men, the thought of being married to a woman who regularly sleeps with other men will become an obsession. Is your Hotwife your sexual obsession?Men who love Hotwifing always return to the fantasy of their wives' sexual partners when they need sexual stimulation and they often seek out hot wife porn. If you have this Hotwife Lifestyle fantasy or seek out Hotwife porn, you really need to read Hotwife | A Couple's Guide to Hotwifing to learn what it is really all about and find out if it is right for you and your partner. Hotwife is the sensational new book by Author & Social Media Influencer, Marisa Rudder.
Book Synopsis Hotwife by : Marisa Rudder
Download or read book Hotwife written by Marisa Rudder and published by . This book was released on 2021-12-18 with total page pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Have you and your wife been discussing "hotwifing" and now you're ready to take the plunge. Or rather, your wife is ready to find and have sex with another man, and as her husband you are delighted. Get enlightened and investigate what causes a unique Hotwife sexual lifestyle. Committed and loving couples everywhere are rejecting life-long monogamy by choosing open relationships. Female Led Relationship and Sex expert Marisa Rudder is the author of the bestselling books Cuckolding and Swinging and now she is taking a deep dive into Hotwifing in her new book Hotwife | A Couples Guide to Hotwifing. After all Hotwifing promotes the first rule of a "Love & Obey" Female Led Relationship, the Queen's pleasure always comes first. So her sexual freedom is a key component of her relationship, her openness to enjoy sex and pleasure is an end in and of itself, and it is not part of any bargain with her husband. For many of these men, the thought of being married to a woman who regularly sleeps with other men will become an obsession. Is your Hotwife your sexual obsession?Men who love Hotwifing always return to the fantasy of their wives' sexual partners when they need sexual stimulation and they often seek out hot wife porn. If you have this Hotwife Lifestyle fantasy or seek out Hotwife porn, you really need to read Hotwife | A Couple's Guide to Hotwifing to learn what it is really all about and find out if it is right for you and your partner. Hotwife is the sensational new book by Author & Social Media Influencer, Marisa Rudder.
What does a real-life cuckold relationship actually look like? Can you convert your wife into a hotwife? Allora Sinclair examines the cuckold lifestyle in a refreshing, open and honest way, drawing on her own experience in a cuckold marriage for over seven years. No stone is left unturned in this real, objective and comprehensive blueprint. She demystifies the erotic and pornographic distortions this alternative lifestyle presents. Filtering out the psychobabble, she helps guide you to establish if it's something within you through self-analysis. Cuckold angst, establishing boundaries and maintaining a healthy relationship are all discussed in detail. While recognizing the specific issues between husband and wife her perspective remains from the cuck's point of view throughout the analysis. This is a must-read for any male considering cuckolding as a real-life direction.
Book Synopsis DNA of a Cuckold - Husband Edition: Understanding Yourself, Your Angst And What To Do Next by : Allora Sinclair
Download or read book DNA of a Cuckold - Husband Edition: Understanding Yourself, Your Angst And What To Do Next written by Allora Sinclair and published by . This book was released on 2021-01-25 with total page 54 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: What does a real-life cuckold relationship actually look like? Can you convert your wife into a hotwife? Allora Sinclair examines the cuckold lifestyle in a refreshing, open and honest way, drawing on her own experience in a cuckold marriage for over seven years. No stone is left unturned in this real, objective and comprehensive blueprint. She demystifies the erotic and pornographic distortions this alternative lifestyle presents. Filtering out the psychobabble, she helps guide you to establish if it's something within you through self-analysis. Cuckold angst, establishing boundaries and maintaining a healthy relationship are all discussed in detail. While recognizing the specific issues between husband and wife her perspective remains from the cuck's point of view throughout the analysis. This is a must-read for any male considering cuckolding as a real-life direction.
There's nothing wrong with having a fetish; they're just sexual desires that society frowns upon, and that shouldn't stop you if you're happy. This book is written with that in mind, but mainly aimed at those who aren't happy, or those who are curious enough to investigate their psychology and understand themselves. Over the years, researchers in psychology have found success in many methods of changing or removing problematic sexual desires, and these are reviewed in this fully referenced, evidence-based self-help book.The distinctive feature of the cuckold fetish is that it involves being cheated on, right in front of you. The pain of infidelity and the humiliating feeling of inadequacy are what constitute this fetish. 'For some reason', this fetish turns the feeling of inadequacy into sexual pleasure. The possible explanations for this are reviewed in chapter 1, before chapter 2 explores this concept of inadequacy more deeply. The cuckold fetish turns painful deep-rooted fears of inadequacy and a subconscious sense of inadequacy into sexual pleasure. This is linked to the optional interracial element, as well as fetishes for humiliation, chastity, emasculation/feminization, and more. Most importantly of all, it's about the woman enjoying it, loving every second, losing control, and moaning more than ever, because that's what triggers the sense of inadequacy. By understanding these fears and feelings, we understand ourselves, and learn the unconscious drivers for most of our actions in life.Chapter 3 explores the way these deep-rooted fears and feelings can affect your life; causing all sorts of behaviors, like: addictions (alcoholism, drugs, gambling, or porn). Obsessive self-improvement (work, money, dieting/bodybuilding, or knowledge). Escapism (excessive video games, TV, Films, intellectualization). Grandiose fantasies, as well as occasional subhuman perceptions; an unstable sense of self. Underachieving, procrastinating, overachieving, perfectionism. Chapter 4 is all about how this subconscious inadequacy formed in the first place: it's initially formed in early childhood. Many factors affect it, such as not having privacy, attention, control, or security, unemotional fathers, absent fathers, workaholic fathers, alcoholic parents, physical punishment, needy parents, or narcissistic parents. Other factors throughout life can affect it too, such as culture and relationships, and being cheated on in the past. You've probably either attracted 'crazy' girlfriends that you're avoidant to, or distant/cold girlfriends that you're too needy to.Chapter 5 is about taking action. Numerous practical steps are presented to change your fetish, in both the short and the long term, from all angles in psychology including behavioral, psychodynamic, social, physiological, and humanistic. As with the rest of this book, significant statements are referenced and backed up with appropriate sources, which are listed at the end of the book.Debut self-help author and experienced fetish researcher Connor McGonigal guides you through the multi-step process to understand and overcome the causative psychology of the cuckold fantasy, refined by years of coaching men 1-on-1, and his self-help video course of the same name. This book is about using your fetish to understand yourself - the most fundamental aspects of your psychology - and being able to grow as a person, whether you want to change your fetish with it or not. Fetishes can naturally come and go over the course of our lifetimes, because we change and grow as people. Sometimes, the fears and self-image that we had at one point in our lives is completely different from today, and as a result, our sexual fantasies change to match.This book is about speeding up that process - understanding 'subconscious inadequacy', and overcoming it.
Book Synopsis The Psychology Behind The Cuckold Fetish by : Connor McGonigal
Download or read book The Psychology Behind The Cuckold Fetish written by Connor McGonigal and published by Independently Published. This book was released on 2019-04-19 with total page 258 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: There's nothing wrong with having a fetish; they're just sexual desires that society frowns upon, and that shouldn't stop you if you're happy. This book is written with that in mind, but mainly aimed at those who aren't happy, or those who are curious enough to investigate their psychology and understand themselves. Over the years, researchers in psychology have found success in many methods of changing or removing problematic sexual desires, and these are reviewed in this fully referenced, evidence-based self-help book.The distinctive feature of the cuckold fetish is that it involves being cheated on, right in front of you. The pain of infidelity and the humiliating feeling of inadequacy are what constitute this fetish. 'For some reason', this fetish turns the feeling of inadequacy into sexual pleasure. The possible explanations for this are reviewed in chapter 1, before chapter 2 explores this concept of inadequacy more deeply. The cuckold fetish turns painful deep-rooted fears of inadequacy and a subconscious sense of inadequacy into sexual pleasure. This is linked to the optional interracial element, as well as fetishes for humiliation, chastity, emasculation/feminization, and more. Most importantly of all, it's about the woman enjoying it, loving every second, losing control, and moaning more than ever, because that's what triggers the sense of inadequacy. By understanding these fears and feelings, we understand ourselves, and learn the unconscious drivers for most of our actions in life.Chapter 3 explores the way these deep-rooted fears and feelings can affect your life; causing all sorts of behaviors, like: addictions (alcoholism, drugs, gambling, or porn). Obsessive self-improvement (work, money, dieting/bodybuilding, or knowledge). Escapism (excessive video games, TV, Films, intellectualization). Grandiose fantasies, as well as occasional subhuman perceptions; an unstable sense of self. Underachieving, procrastinating, overachieving, perfectionism. Chapter 4 is all about how this subconscious inadequacy formed in the first place: it's initially formed in early childhood. Many factors affect it, such as not having privacy, attention, control, or security, unemotional fathers, absent fathers, workaholic fathers, alcoholic parents, physical punishment, needy parents, or narcissistic parents. Other factors throughout life can affect it too, such as culture and relationships, and being cheated on in the past. You've probably either attracted 'crazy' girlfriends that you're avoidant to, or distant/cold girlfriends that you're too needy to.Chapter 5 is about taking action. Numerous practical steps are presented to change your fetish, in both the short and the long term, from all angles in psychology including behavioral, psychodynamic, social, physiological, and humanistic. As with the rest of this book, significant statements are referenced and backed up with appropriate sources, which are listed at the end of the book.Debut self-help author and experienced fetish researcher Connor McGonigal guides you through the multi-step process to understand and overcome the causative psychology of the cuckold fantasy, refined by years of coaching men 1-on-1, and his self-help video course of the same name. This book is about using your fetish to understand yourself - the most fundamental aspects of your psychology - and being able to grow as a person, whether you want to change your fetish with it or not. Fetishes can naturally come and go over the course of our lifetimes, because we change and grow as people. Sometimes, the fears and self-image that we had at one point in our lives is completely different from today, and as a result, our sexual fantasies change to match.This book is about speeding up that process - understanding 'subconscious inadequacy', and overcoming it.
